It Occurred that, Final yr, my home assist obtained pregnant, I requested the woman who was accountable. it took a few week earlier than she mentioned it was my husband’s youthful brother, who lives with us, that impregnated her.
Since my husband’s brother continues to be studying a commerce, & doesn’t make a lot, he generally comes again with 500 naira a day. So hubby determined to assist out, he gave her cash to register on the hospital. After 2months, my husband suggested that the woman needs to be taken to their mother (my husband’s mother) within the village till she delivers.
My husband purchased issues for her & gave her cash for transport & additionally feeding. In the meantime, my husband’s brother continues to be with us right here within the metropolis; he didn’t go to the village.
One week later, my mother-in-law known as to say that the feeding cash given to the woman had completed. My husband despatched her 20k naira the subsequent day.
Since then, it has been fixed billing each week, my husband has been sending cash to her steadily. To chop a protracted story quick, she delivered a child boy earlier this yr, & my husband purchased child issues for her & even went for the naming ceremony within the village. He was gorgeously dressed, as if he was the chief celebrant, whereas his youthful brother, who’s the newborn’s father, was scantily dressed.
Final week, my husband despatched cash to the woman & her child boy to purchase new garments, in the meantime, he has not purchased any for me nor our 3 beautiful daughters (word that we’ve no male little one but).
That apart, I seen that since she gave delivery, my husband has been going to the village frequently, generally as much as 3 occasions a month, & often sleeps over on every go to, saying he went to see his aged mother.
The most recent issuf now’s that my husband is saying she needs to deliver the woman & her child again to our home subsequent month to reside with us. However I refused & mentioned no, insisting all of the issues he has accomplished for them is sufficient, & that he ought to ship the woman again to her household, that I don’t want her companies anymore.
My husband is insisting that she should come again to our home subsequent month to reside together with her child
As issues are actually, I don’t know if the woman is utilizing ch’ams on my husband or one thing, cuz i don’t perceive why my very own husband has chosen to hold my former home assist & her son on his head. Please, whether it is ch’arm, how do I break it? I actually do want recommendation on methods to deal with this problem. Thanks”
